
MEET THE FOUNDER

I am Shirland McKoy — a woman once grounded by heartbreak, now rising with purpose.
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I have known the silence after vows are broken.
I have sat in the stillness, asking “Who am I now?”
And somewhere between the undoing and the becoming,
I found a whisper - not just of healing, but of calling.​
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Restore to Soar was not born from a polished place. It was born in the raw — from the ache of divorce, the unravelling of identity, and the quiet courage it takes to begin again.
It was born when I realised that the very pain I thought would bury me… was planting something deeper.
I do not stand as a woman who has it all figured out.
I am still in flight.
But I have learned that even in midair - with wings trembling - there is beauty, strength, and hope.
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So I created this space for you.
For the woman carrying silent grief.
For the one who smiles in public but crumbles behind closed doors.
For the woman ready to rise - not perfectly, but honestly.
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Here, you are not judged.
You are not broken.
You are in the sacred process of becoming.
This is more than a programme.
It is a soft landing place.
A quiet rising.
A wellspring of life.
Welcome to Restore to Soar.
Welcome to your next chapter.
With you in the becoming,
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Shirland McKoy
YOUR INVITATION TO RISE...
From Surviving to Soaring
If you're reading this and you're in that quiet place - the aftermath, the ache, the what now? - know this:
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You’re not alone.
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You are allowed to fall apart.
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You are allowed to not have it all figured out.
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You are also allowed - fully and freely - to rise again.
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Restore to Soar is here to walk that rise with you.
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This is your invitation -
To heal at your own pace.
To write a new chapter.
To become the woman you were always meant to be.
To soar beyond what you thought was possible.
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We’re ready when you are
Let’s soar together